They are writing, doing math worksheets, doing art projects.

He appears to be totally freaked out by all of it.

He is good at reading, talking, thinking.

I do think it's a mis-match, eroding his spirit, and making his stubborn streak worse.

Unschooling makes the most sense, but I am concerned that he will just get the message that he has won-- and no longer has to do anything. Also, as I've posted before, I tend to yell at him.