She also relayed some of the things the teachers shared and it was, frankly, awful. She said she was told that "something has to change" if he is to continue with the program, but the language is unclear about what it is that has to change. She attributed that to it being social skills, and nobody understanding it.
Eco, none of this is pleasant to hear. And yet your tester's observations match all you've said here, and she sounds responsible.
"Something has to change" can be the school having to change... need not be all on your DS and you (as it has been to date).
I think something positive is in the works here. I really do. Hang onto the long view.
