"She also said she is perfectly willing to give her impressions day of testing, to be followed by report at later date (thank goodness, bc I am so anxiety-ridden)." This is great. I wish all professionals would do this! We are on week 3 of waiting for report with zero information. Our situation is not emergent but given what you have going on I can understand how difficult it would be to wait for feedback.

I am sending lots of positive thoughts your way. It is clear that your son could not have a better advocate than you.