Originally Posted by master of none
I think the principal, who is used to being in control, and used to dealing with difficult parents in a controlling way, is simply upping the control because he doesn't feel comfortable with how things are going in his school.

I agree with this.

BUT if anyone is being bullied it's me .... It feels like he tries to bully me constantly. I do think he is intentionally trying to bully me.

I think he wants to stop communication between teachers and me because more than once now a teacher has said something that indicated a violation of the iep. He is worried about the liability that comes with the fact that teachers are unknowingly or not realizing that they violating the iEP and then clearly admitting the violations in writing. The answer to that is not stopping communication - it's making sure the teachers are fully educated and having a specific IEP so that everyone knows what they are suppose to be doing to be in compliance.