Val...

Ultramarina is NOT the one who PM'd me. I think you misread that statement of hers. She was saying she was *one* of those early on in this post that said it could be misunderstood.

I deliberately didn't mention who PM'd me because that is neither here-nor-there as far as I am concerned.

I have spoken with her in more PM's and she in no way has made me feel like her intentions were other than to save me some grief!

Just to be clear...the original PM to me was one in good-faith, imo.