I fear I've given the impression we don't listen to music in our house!!! We do, just not the radio, and definitely not anything modern top 40 because we are old. She gets exposed to just about every other type of ,music you can think of - we have eclectic tastes (including at times, silence)it's just her particular favourite happens to be ABBA (also one of mine!)

Sounds to me that it doesn't matter anyway I just didn't want her to be standing there with a blank look on her face if the kids were talking about it.