To add to my long post -- lol! -- I know from past experience that dd will want to do the opposite of whatever I want. If I tell her what I want her to do, she'll acquiesce but then blame me and others for whatever she doesn't like if it isn't perfect.
She really needs to step up to the plate and stop making excuses rather than buckling down if she finds something hard. Dh and I are also concerned that she will coast academically at school C and therefore not learn how to deal with something that isn't a cake walk.
