Hello,
We had a similar experience with the school in that they told us my older son has Aspeger's. Now, I am not positive he does, but I started to look at what they would do for him if he did, and I decided that if he received a formal diagnosis I would make the most of it.

My DS8 gets sensory lab in the mornings for Aspegers. Whether or not he has Aspegers, it is really helping him with sensory over-excitabilities. He is being taught trigger points and how to deal with them. I look at all these coping techniques and feel that I made the right call.:)