I am not HSing yet, but I have similar trouble with the current school and I might be HSing next year.

In our area, we have public charter home schools. You can use their materials (free), or they provide you a budget to buy any non-religious materials. There is also one day a week classes that are mostly academic like science, social science, history, math etc. There is also 1 other day that's called lab day and the kids participate in fun classes like pottery, drama, music, PE etc. Classes are all free.

Each charter school provide different budget and classes. You don't have to participate in anything if you don't want to.

There are also educational field trips every 5 weeks or so. Also every 5 weeks, you have to take all the works in to see the educational specialist to check your works.

Good luck!

Cindi