Here's another interesting blog post. "Gifted should not be a dirty word."
http://www.crushingtallpoppies.com/2013/06/just-after-i-posted-my-thoughts-on-g.html

Ok, so I actually hate the word "gifted", personally. Just because it sounds so elitist, and I wish there was another word or phrase to better describe the condition. I try not to use it but sometimes you have to, such as when you're talking to school officials about "gifted programming". But I usually end up regretting using the word.