Really appreciate the posts so far. My DD also does have issues with being fearful about sickness, especially vomiting. I would also say she asks again and again about things that concern her, like Pemberley mentions with the color chart.

She does have also some slight ASD-looking , also some things that look a little ADHD, but no dx ever seems like it's quite "right." Although she seems to be doing fine at school (she goes to a gifted magnet), struggles at home continue. We are at the point where we think an outside consult might be of use, but are not sure of first steps.