Justamom ---
good for you and your son for continuing to look for the REAL answers, it's so easy to just give up on a kid who is having issues, especially when you think, hey they're an adult now! Very impressive MOM work.
There is a woman at my work, her step son failed his last quarter of classes as a Sr., is in peril of loosing scholarships etc., because he has alcohol and likely depression issues -- the dad refuses to get him counseling or other treatment. The kid is just falling apart and the dad assumes he just needs to 'pull himself together'.
Pretty off the track story, but the idea of sticking with your child is a big issue for me, not accepting a diagnosis of 'laziness' or 'immaturity' means being willing to do a lot of hard work for your kid, but it can be so gratifying to find the RIGHT answers. Best of luck to your family in moving forward from here!
