Oh, where is the magic fix-it-all-now pill????
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Transforming the Difficult Child Workbook: An Interactive Guide to The Nurtured Heart Approach (9780967050751): Lisa Bravo, Howard Glasser
I will warn you that 'now' is a relative term (wink)
But, seriously, we have complete freedom of perspective, and almost always we can choose to see our circumstances a number of different ways. There is so much about life that we can't know, so 'back seat driving' eventually becomes less apealling, yes?
Love and More Love,
Grinity