Re the watch--I actually really like this for DD, but she is very fashion-oriented and also extremely worried and embarrassed about the fact that she is in treatment for a mental health issue already. frown I don't think she would ever go for it, for fear of looking different, being asked what it is, etc. I think I AM about to bend and get her a smartphone, which is going to be tricky, but she has independence WRT going to/from school now and it's kind of a safety matter. I know she can't use it during school, but reminder apps etc are legion these days and I think I will look at those for nonschool structuring and reminders.