Can you hire a tutor, even just a few hours a week? I could never homeschool my oldest (10), who still has blow-ups similar to what you describe over homework at times. She and I are not a good combination when it comes to instruction. She and dad are a little better, but not much. She does not have these issues with other adults, or only very minorly so. What about your daughter? Any blow-ups at her class, for insance? I understand your concerns about B&M school, but it sounds like another person to instruct might help.

I am NOT blaming you at all. I absolutely KNOW the kind of thing you are going through. It is why I jokingly say that if we homeschooled only one of us would get out alive.