Actually, we've had problems with the multi-player online games with an older sibling; he is sitting out a semester of engineering school at the moment. We've worked with her to find the "right" amount of screen time, and for her, it's almost none.

I would welcome any resource ideas for a "control mechanic" life skill. I may share with older brother, too.

I'll consider the fantasy fiction writing. She's been reluctant to do so in the past, but maybe if offered it as an alternative to a history essay? :o)