Scary artical, it makes us each reflect on how we advocate for our kids. It's natural to keep checking on ourselves. Look at how many of us are told the, just let them be kids, stop pushing, etc....Imagine though if you did nothing, I really doubt things would be better. I think as long as its about your children and not about yourself, you will most likly make the best choice. None of us are perfect, we will make mistakes, we will make changes along the way. But the goal for all of us (IMHO) is to have childern that can follow thier dreams, enjoy life,and live good and productive lives. As long as its not about us, I think we will choose ok.