Well that is very reassuring because I definately think of you as someone who has it down pat. System working, running on autopilot it's going so smoothly. smile

Realistically, your children are at the age where if you would have pushed too far there would have already been a massive meltdown........And I don't mean normal teenage hormone stuff....I mean true breakdown.

So I always pay close attention when you're handing out advice. My kids are still young, I'll feel much better when they are happy healthy teenagers!