Passthepotatoes, can you say anything to me without judgement? I never once said happiness. Give it a break.
Ren
Happiness is a central part of my definition of success. I'm not clear what is threatening about that word, I'm thinking many parents think about factors like feeling personally fulfilled, happy in relationships, satisfied in work, etc. when they think of success for their kids. Their kids may or may not have the same ideas. Some people care more about great vacations pr material wealth than other people. I can say that for me personally being a person who does organ donations for rich people who can pay in cash and will give me access to their vacation homes, wouldn't be the road to happiness.
