Must be tough to find the fine line between challenging her to succeed or just boosting her self-esteem with work performance that is too easy for her. �Everybody needs a little bit of both, a balance. �Some people worry too much about the self-esteem, and some people completely disregard other peoples discomfort. �Most people try to find a healthy balance. That sounds like what you're trying to do but �"one class is too hard, one class is too soft". Don't worry, soon you'll find the one that is "just right.". And that too shall pass.
Also, some people buy their kids flashier clothes to help them get past the "break the ice" thing, like for the first week of school. �Sometimes it's easier to come out of your shell in a costume. Try sequined shoes and other bling. �I've heard it works for some people.
Last edited by La Texican; 09/09/10 10:43 PM. Reason: To add a suggestion I've heard of.
