Oh, yannam, I hear you. D2 is PG, but also very shy. It makes me CRAZY sometimes. She is coming out of her shell some these days (age 15), but I still can't really imagine her in a job interview or similar situation (although - MIRACLE - she decided she liked debate last year, and has eagerly signed up again this year. So there is hope!).

But I don't think my D would be more bold with a different/ younger group of kids. She would still be shy. And bored...