Thanks everyone,

Sorry about the incoherency of my posts and getting off track, I tend to think out loud.

Ok I have a plan, at least for the moment. I am going to observe all three schools preK and K classes this winter to try and see first hand what we have to work with. Then mabe we will find a least-worst fit before K?

I ordered Ruffs book, but it never came. frown
I did read Genius Denied, Wow! I never knew other teenagers also read Dostoyevsky. Or that it was unusual to read Dostoyevsky as a kid. blush All I can say about Genius Denied, is yeah! It makes me think it is not an over reaction to try and figure some of this stuff out for our muffin cakes.

Thanks for lots of good advise and things to think about.