Following! This is my kid in a nutshell. I do believe he is an exact replica of my husband, who had a VERY hard time growing up, but in his 20s really blossomed and is now and incredible and incredibly well-functioning human being, working as a graphic artist at a major movie studio. He still has a LOT of what I would call sensory issues, but he manages them pretty well and is a wonderful father as well. I look to him for hope when I'm despairing at my son's behavior. smile