We didn't share scores with DS7's with his school- I wish we had because his teacher said he was inattentive and he was claiming that he was bored because he didn't understand the material. She was completely unwilling to entertain that he was indeed bored and it contributed him being inattentive.
In her defense, I think that she found the simplest and most likely answer for DS's issues in her class- if I had provided his IQ scores and subsequent achievement test scores, at least she would have had a complete picture. I don't know what the result would have been, but we got the worst possible outcome without sharing- a wasted academic semester at a hefty tuition price and we changed schools.
We were much more direct (although polite, modest and diplomatic) with DS's new school. So far, so good.
