Ok, some of the responses seemed to suggest that I am being judgemental of this parent's parenting style. I am, but simply to the extent that I have to deal with these children on a regular basis AND have had their mom comment to me many times about their behavior (she doesn't like it either, but doesn't want to break thier spirits).
Okay, honestly? I would be biting my tongue to avoid saying "honey, those spirits are just
screaming to be broken, and the world will be a much happier place if you start now."
Okay, so probably that would be a bad idea...hence the tongue-biting. But seriously, I have known a few people who were perfectly lovely except that I couldn't stand their kids, and invariably, the friendship dies a pretty quick death. I am impressed as all-get-out that you ever made it to the point where you're willing to babysit them.
