Dottie and I talked it over, and we say: 'Test One-Test them all!'
OK, I've FINALLY read that enough on this board for it to sink in and to finally make it happen for DS7. I called around to local universities and educational psychs and found someone affordable enough for us to consider, AND she even has an opening before we're scheduled to meet with the school admin about next year for both DC.
I talked with her quite a bit about the tests, and about DS7's perfectionism and she said what I thought were the right things, particularly about how to encourage responses other than, "I don't know" or "I'm not sure" which is what I expect him to say a lot.
So, my fingers are crossed that DS stays healthy and cooperates as fully as he can. And thanks, Grinity, for continuing to post this mantra!
