I would have said my DS3 is not gifted. He just didn't seem to be. DD5 gifted teacher said to me the other day that she'd be seeing him in a few years. Apparently DD has been telling her things about him. He's starting to "read" words and does addition problems. This is very normal or actually compared to DD below normal and has an extensive vocabulary. At 3 she could write her name, she could add and subtract, and was reading books. So we figured that what he was doing all other 3 year olds were doing. Apparently I was very wrong. Watching him more closely we're starting to see giftedness.