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My DD9 got 134 and my DD6 got 142 when they were tested at 5. DD9 is shy and would do all she can not to draw attention from others whereas DD6 craves it. DD9 is getting good grade at 4th grade but not above grade level but DD6 is in 2nd grade and she got CTY Honor for 2nd grade (above 4th grade Math and reading).

DD9 is coming around. We were happy with her being in TAG cluster class and did not challenge/supplement her and she was happy with where she was at. With her little sister right behind her, she is now ready to move ahead again.

Yes, personality may mask the giftedness. My DD6 is bossier than DD9 (in class as well) and the birth order does not really matters in our family.