It sounds like you might be dealing with a jerk who enjoys exerting power (and his builder comment is ridiculous). I suspect your daughter's grades will be engineered so that she still ends up with an A at the end of the quarter, but only after he "teaches her a lesson" and she learns from his great teaching. So maybe you don't need to do anything?

Does he make the students call him Mr. whatever his first initial is? Sounds like the type.

Or maybe I'm reading too much into this.