Kriston-
Do you use the babysitter to get work done, or just for when you go out of the house? I have a mother's helper who comes in for a morning once a week,and she's worth her weight in gold. I am able to focus on a task (defrosting the freezer, cleaning out the linen closet, etc.) and get so much more done without the constant interruptions of my two year old.
My oldest at home is now 11 and can take care of his little sisters in a pinch, but he really benefits from the time off too. He has a lot of household responsibilities and seems to appreciate having another kid around to take care of the little ones. I've noticed that he is offering to spend time with the baby more since we hired the helper a few months ago. Last week, he sat and helped her practice writing words on her magnadoodle. She was thrilled to have the attention and he basked in the glow of her adoration. It was really sweet!
