ok... I have to add the line i have heard at every one of those meeting they have to tell you whats "wrong" with your kid.... it's supposed to be about looking for ways to keep him engaged, but instead... anyway... here is the line.....

are you ready....... brace yourself

"Just let your kid be a kid"

At his point I want to start answering creatively, "No, I was going to have him be an elephant, or maybe an ice cube tray...."

I swear if one more person says that to me I will lose it! (Ok, really I won't....... but in my head I will.... in my head there will be screaming....lol I am sure many of you have been here)