Anne and Trinity,
Thank you so much for your reassurance and suggestions. Very, very helpful. Trinity, especially your points about who would know better whether my child was gifted or not - hit me like a ton of bricks! Very right on. I just started reading the out of sync child. And the link you recently posted for someone else about social/emotional issues was great!
Thanks so much for your detailed reply. I really feel like I have a good idea where to go from here!
Leah