If a person desires to not be perplexed by social norms, and desires to not find social situations difficult to navigate, there are resources and information available. smile

Another poster likened learning different social norms to a language, in a post here. It is up to the individual to decide if they would benefit from learning the language of a group they may wish to belong to.

This may be different than the changing post-secondary norms discussed in the article, which specifically mentioned trigger-warnings and micro-aggressions.