Can you clarify? What points, specifically, do you see a connection between?

Is your friend from the book club similar to a student who wants a trigger warning before reading an assigned book in the curriculum? Does she lack skill in perspective taking, possibly valuing only her viewpoint? Does she attempt to silence other's expression of their ideas, thereby remaining in a bubble?

Conversations may benefit if participants believe there are healthy emotions, and healthy ways to express emotions (even negative emotions). If we apply some general principles of good emotional hygiene, we can gain more accuracy in identifying and expressing our emotions.