I've never had an IQ test and neither has my DH. I'm likely at least moderately gifted, but I also suspect that I have ADHD. Most of the males on my side of the family tree are super smart, and have what appear to be language and social disabilities. We never had names for these issues...now ASD, ADHD, specific language disorders would be on the menu if any had ever been evaluated.

My DH is extremely intelligent and although he has a great career, I think he's a significant underachiever-- guy who dropped out of hard science major in college because he liked to party.

My DS is HG+ and twice exceptional. We were wholly unprepared for our DS- a brilliant kid with social and language impairments.