Well, in some respects, she has developed some exceptional coping skills.

It's just that they revolve around manipulating the situation so that it better aligns with what she wants-- rather than coping with what she doesn't. On the bright side, she has really learned a lot and is being much more proactive about her circumstances. Er-- well, sort of good news, anyway.

It's unfortunate that the adults in charge there can't see past the surface to consider what you've tried to point out.

Schrödinger's cat walks into a bar. And doesn't.