Just wondering if they let your DD know the limits ahead of time (I guess that would include time limits, and limits on what activities are permitted?). With our DD, when she was younger, as long as you spelled out the rules ahead of time and the consequences if she broke them (so that she could choose to follow the rules or not) and then followed through promptly but fairly (i.e., with the consequence that was set out), things worked pretty well. When this did not happen (when the rules were not clear, or the consequences unforeseen), she often reacted badly. Could that be happening with your DD?
Good luck!
