DH got really mad after today he found out , our DS was sent to the principal office , because of the note that DH wrote on the private behavior chart that was sent home yesterday .
On the behavior chart there was a note from PE teacher saying that DS pushed another boy . According to DS the boy was the one pushing first and he just pushed back , and the teacher called them and asked them , but chose to believe the other boy and DS had to sit out the whole time , while the other boy didn't get any consequences . So DH sent a note to school , asking why the other boy didn't get any consequences since it was also him doing the pushing ?
And another note from lunch , about throwing leftover piece of bread into the trash can , DS missed and picked up the food and threw it in the can , but he was noted " no self discipline "
So DH sent a note about that too , and said what's the big deal about this ?
This morning , the teacher saw the note and sent DS to principal , principal then started telling DS that he needs to own up and not acting like he didn't do anything wrong . DS knows he did something wrong by pushing the boy back but he just didn't think it's fair that he got punished and the other boy didn't . The principal said how do you know the other boy didn't get punished ? DS said Because he had to sit out the whole time and the other boy didn't . Then both the principal and assistant principal said to our DS " well it's up to you whether we should keep on going with that green folder ( private behavior chart ) , or you can just throw it away "
At this point i feel like these 2 adults are bullying DS by saying stuff like that .
Also they called this morning , to have a meeting tomorrow afternoon with the them ( principal , assistant principal and counselor ) . DS just had the testing yesterday done at school . But DH is really mad right now because of DS shouldn't be getting scolded for the note that he sent .
DH already had paper ready since last week , to bring up everything that they need to provide for DS and what might work and might not work ( we learned this from our meeting with the pyschologist ) . We went to pyschiatrist and was told nothing , DS just bored , no mood disorder . And also went to a therapist / pyschologist last week , also was told that the teacher just dislikes DS , she could tell from all comments in the communication card . It's not like we're not trying to have DS evaluated , which we did , and both professional said there is nothing wrong with DS .
The school has created all these problems for DS .. and making him like he's a monster .
Do you think it's really worth still to talk with the school ? DH is furious right now and he said he's thinking to talk to the superintendent about how poorly the school is handling this situation .
