My DD14 has always have a problems about keeping friends. It's easy for her to make a bunch because she is funny and outgoing but keeping one seems immposible. she sees flaws in people and gets frustrated when they are missing something like morals, integrity, fairness and diligent. She doesn't share her opinions about what she thinks they are doing wrong but her friends might pick up a cue of her frustration from here and there. Also, most of her friends are jealous of her achievements and wittiness. They would try to talk her out or tease her from being so hardworking and smart. They hurt her feelings from time to time(DD14 is very sensitive too)
DD14 is taking the pre IB program in HS and she is a top student out of the top. It's hard for her to find the same kind since she is not a nerdy type and she gets attracted to the playfulness in the less capable people. DD14 is incredibly playful.
She said she hates everyone and chooses to stay home study 24/7 to avoid getting hurt. School and volley ball are her only buddies. Should I be concerned? Is this normal and it's just a pharse? Are gifted people destined to live their lives like this until they find their own kind one day? Please share your opinions. Thanks a lot.
