These things make me crazy, Today, I was with a group of Moms and of course the discussion turns to school... One Mom was going on about Giftedness and how hard it is to raise her child who is "rediculously smart, but clueless". She knows my younger DD has LD and therefore obviously is not very bright (SARCASM)...Then she said, "You are so lucky to have a slower kid like ..... raising a gifted kid is such hard work! I, bit my tongue, but I really wanted to let her have it. Sometimes, you just have to realize it isn't worth it...and let it go.