First, I used MN just because in DH group there was someone from MN, and there is background story to that which I don't need to address here.
The part some of you might of missed is "options" I want to give DD options. I don't think Alaska is preferred since I think she hates bugs as much as me. I am a natural magnet for mosquitos.
But if it, it is not that exclusive. If she wants to be a coporate lawyer, it is harder.
To give her all the options that is what I wrote. Not that she had to take any of them. My mother brought me up to be a doctor or a dentist, because she saw those that allowed a woman to be in charge. She stressed that I be in a position of decision making. That was a strong lesson. Nothing wrong to not be in a position that isn't decision making, but that wouldn't work for me.
I want to make sure my daughter has options. Am I clear this time?
Ren
