I just took a look at the Flylady.net site - Wow It has Grown since I started.

LOL - one can see a 'non-linear mind' at work! No wonder she had CHAOS (can't have anyone over syndrome)! It took Marla 9 months to declutter. That sounds really short to me. I got the worst 50% done and have been coasting for years.

ok - so to start with, do something and if that doesn't work, do something else.

My best guess is to start here:
http://flylady.net/pages/begin_babysteps.asp

and just mindless follow the rules for 31 days. In fact I'm so inspired that I'm going to celebrate my empty nest by starting a new thread where whoever wants to can start and we can all do it together. Then we can whine, complain and celebrate together. My plan is to skip the things that feel too hard, for now and spiral back to them later.

Smiles,
Grinity

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