the thing I wasn't thrilled about was that the teacher labeled the "best" white behavior color cards as "perfect" so since he came home he kept saying, I really wanted to be perfect today....no one is perfect...he already has a perfectionism issue...
I thought that the "white card" was for Excellent... if not, you are right, perfect is a silly standard.
But your concern perfectionism is exactly why I make a big deal out of *not* making big deal about anything the school doesn't bother telling me about.
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