Hi Elh0706,
No need to appologise. Raising these kids is tiring.
Montessori - how far above grade level do they have him in his strength areas? Some Montessoris are terrific about letting the kid really go far in his strength area - some are not. Can they help him integrate his interests into his school work?
Does your son get to be with peer for afterschool activites?
Have you applied to Davidson's Young Scholar Program. I think you would like it.
Has he seen the Dinotopia Books? They are so beautiful!
Best Wishes,
Trinity