Hi Trini04,
As far as Toddlers go I have some pretty strong opinions, but here there are...
1) Your first job is to document. Pick up a copy of Dr. Deb Ruf's Losing our Minds, gifted children left behind, and start making notes, video's etc.
2) Your second job is to enjoy your little tyke. Spend your time doing what is fun for the two of you. You don't need to foster his capacity, or get him into a preschool, unless he seems to want it. Let him lead. Consider adopting an "no lying to the kid" policy.
3) On the side, start reading whatever books are in your library system on Gifted and on Homeschooling. Get involved with your state Gifted Association. Also - model yourself as a person who has intellectual interests and pursues them.
4) Don't force him to play with agemates unless he wants too. Seek playdates with kids of a wide range of ages.
5) think seriously about what you want your family policy on TV/computer games to be. There are pluses and minuses.
Best wishes,
Trinity
