Hi Mary,
Glad to hear that DD finally allowed herself to be seen!

I think your DS is having his turn to 'squeek' as his joints un-freeze from the position of 'smart=easy.' My guess is that both your children are facing underachievement issues in their own ways.

What kinds of accomidations is DS getting at school?

I really like http://www.sylviarimm.com/whybrightkids.html
but after going on and on about common parent mistakes, she fesses up that just plain being wildly underplaced can cause all the obnoxious perfectionistic behaviors and internal confusions of smart/self identity.

((Waving Wildly))
It's great to hear from you!
Grinity