What got me with the start of the thread is I and some others on here thought the teacher wasn't wrong with what she said. She and the school are in charge of the kids education. You're not there. I think that should have explained to the kid immediately instead of running right away to the teacher and complaining. Teachers aren't always right but there not always wrong either.I understand you're situation and it seems to be the right thing that you did. But a lot of thing come up on these threads seemed to be just to complain about things IMO that aren't really problems.The original post on this thread seemed to be one of them.