my point I was trying to make above was that I'd be concerned if teachers saw such things, and Dr. isn't picking up same stuff, or at least contributing to the long list of Dx they could be, and

if your dtr is anxious? then if she picks up on any of it, even the very subtle bits... this could just increase her own anxiety ?

and the giftedness part comes into play with many are more sensitive, so that itself increases the anxiety levels.
idk.

Sorry if I am completely off base.
Just a thought as I said....
I will go finish gardening!

One can never consent to creep when
one feels an impulse to soar!
~Helen Keller