This is good stuff!!!
As parents, it seems the bottom line is that we really need to know our kiddo's and what they need, and what they are capable of. Being "new" to this, it is so helpful to hear other peoples thoughts and experiences - it is a lifeline and a way to start down the path...
I assume (hope?) that as kids get older, it is less difficult to figure out what they need???? Someone say that is true!!!!