Thanks for the rec, acs. May I ask: what specifically is good about Raising Cain? Why did you like that book in particular? (You know me and my quest for more info...
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In our family, it is about context and control. That means he gets to experiment with different personas and learn how to manage them all. Sometimes that means making mistakes and dealing with consequences.
BTW, I think this is very smart. If they can't experiment and make mistakes and learn from the consequences now, when will they? As adults? The consequences are much greater then! I think you're a wise woman!
